You guys are funny. But I couldn't interpret your comment on it being women who tip the scales. Like in what respect are they more or less than men? In wanting intimate encounters?

Personally I've thought it would be fun, but I'm less concerned about being hurt emotionally as I am about being hurt physically. Even if the pre-encounter conversation went well, who knows if the guy is actually someone who gets off by hurting people or will refuse to wear a condom when the time comes? I have seriously considered hooking up a couple of times, but I've decided it's not worth the risk.

My view would be from the apartment building 4 blocks down.
With binoculars.

Welcome to Mingle Rayzor! My only tip for you is to be patient and join the forums if you want to get acquainted with real people on this site. Have fun!