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Wed 12/12/07 08:47 AM

drugs inhance bad tempers too .... oh ill leave it at that....ill just say this.... and not go into detail... once the kids are bruised that is where u draw the line..... im sure when u reject him u will hear the spew of no one will want u cause u have a baby... and then the emotional beat down will start happening first..... that u are fat or whatever.... my gawd i was 5'4 and 120 lbs i was fat..... funny how i beleived it for 20 yrs later




the sad part is i can just picture him doing the same... and it takes a strong person to go through that and im not ready for that i just dont know how to keep him away, well he can still visit his son if he wants... supervised... but he thinks because i have his child that im his or whatever and he is a nice guy at times but my son deserves better so how do i tell him i dnt want to be with him without him going off the hook??

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Wed 12/12/07 08:12 AM
Edited by single_mommy_b on Wed 12/12/07 08:16 AM

maybe he needs a place to live too?



thats not it... he has a place with his cousin.huh so yeah...

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Wed 12/12/07 07:50 AM
he says he works construction but i havent seen anything from it he hasnt even bought him diapers or helped out with medical bills or anything! i am thinking about having a talk with him he just has a really bad temper and i dont know how he will react to this expecially if hes high... so IDK!

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Wed 12/12/07 07:20 AM
well he keeps telling me that he dosent have a reason to change rite now but if i get back with him hed have a family and a reason to change but i just cant chance it! and as for the visits i dont trust him to be alone with him yet so yes i told him he can come to my house whenever he wants but our son is 6 months old and he has chose to see him 3 times... i just dont believe a word he says but my family and friends are pressuring me to give him a chance, yes i still have feelings for him but im thinkin of my sons future! thanks for the advice everyone

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Wed 12/12/07 07:01 AM
ok when i was with my sons father i was more of the partier type but once i got prego i changed and broke up with his dad because i didnt think he could change. well we didnt talk practically the whole pregnancy and he didnt see our son till he was 3 mos old, but now he is coming around a little more and keeps asking me to give him another chance but he is still on the same level as he was with the drugs and stuff so i just dont know what i should do because i know that it would be good for my son if his parents were together but it would be terrible for him to grow up with his dads lifestyle... any advice???

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Tue 12/11/07 05:48 PM
yay me lolzsmooched

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Tue 12/11/07 05:42 PM
hugflowerforyou

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Tue 12/11/07 05:39 PM
o my gosh what a cutie! i totally want a girl next lolz

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Tue 12/11/07 05:26 PM
uhh... scotty lolz

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Tue 12/11/07 08:25 AM
i am my own normal lolz deal with it ha ha jklaugh

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Mon 12/10/07 01:29 PM
laugh laugh laugh thats funny laugh laugh laugh

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Mon 12/10/07 01:17 PM
its me lolz!

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Mon 12/10/07 12:45 PM
good luck finding a man... or even a female that doesn't go by looks but we all have our own opinion on what attractive is!

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Sat 12/08/07 04:04 PM
take





shopping... and mayb the spa lolz flowerforyou

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Sat 12/08/07 03:41 PM
hug!!

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Sat 11/24/07 06:25 PM
10 lolz we are milfs lolz hell yeah

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Sat 11/24/07 06:21 PM
um.... 5? idk lolz

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Sat 11/24/07 06:04 PM
damn my son is teething... but hes soooo cute its ok

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Sat 11/24/07 12:53 PM


most likely tease neanderthalDave lolz
yeah, but u would be pleasedflowerforyou


or so you think ha ha...

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Sat 11/24/07 12:45 PM
most likely tease neanderthalDave lolz