I wouldn't worry about it or try figuring out some men who really have no idea what they want just phonies or playing games maybe might have been married and was caught by his wife . Your a pretty girl don't sweat it when you least expect it the right one will come along in the mean time just have fun with it

Bataki sorry to tell you this but you are being played to see if you can be drawn in for the next sad story.
Have you met this person yet or just talked on the phone and text.
The next chapter is coming honey move on your young plenty of women out there looking for a honest man trust what I say don't waste your heart and your time if she is so distraught she would won't someone to talk to .You are being played cut her loose and move on you will be fine.I have met the same online looking for money all have a sad story??