Their are decent guys in here. You will have to look a bit however to separate the players from the one's that want to try to develop something more. I am only speaking for myself, but finding a decent person weather you’re looking for a man or woman isn't an easy thing to do on any site. But since (I think) most of us in here are a bit more seasoned, we know you always go thru some of the crap before you get to the good stuff. I wish you well on your quest and feel free to drop me a line if I can help. I may be older but I am certainly not dead in any way.
Good Luck,

Harold