I don't think that this is hate mail, but when i was looking for a nice woman on this website, i ran across a few that were speaking spanish only! they said they wanted a mexican man only! i told them to go to a mexican website, and look for one! if you have not noticed, it says "just say hi" not como esta............... and the language they were using was that you have to be mexican only to understan it! so why not go to another website? i know i will get some idiots to send me stupid responses, but this is what i think, and i really think that they should go to another website!!!