If you are looking for an affair then there is something missing in your marriage. It can be a way to find what you are missing but it is a dangerous way to go. We are all looking for the 100% satisfaction we never get in any relationship. We might get 70% or 80%, then down the road we wondering and thing we missing the 20% to 30% and going to look for it not realizing we may loose the "%" we already have and for sure you will loose it some day. So, make sure you give this a long thought before going this road.