I think most people are scared of the initial phases of dating and relationships more than fearing too much to fall in love.

Not everybody's the same but I think I can speak for many people when I say that it becomes difficult to BEGIN relationships when you're closed up or have had a recent unhealthy, painful or tumultuous relationship.

Hell, Ive been on this for weeks now and not one person has said hello to me out of the blue and out of the women I have written an introductory email to, two wrote back and both were up to no good, obviously not being serious. Maybe just kids fooling around or fake profiles, idk, but here's the same old junk with simply trying to begin a conversation. It used to be pretty simple, is everybody THAT paranoid and damaged?


Ive had terrible things done to me in a couple relationships and I wasnt always the best I could be but Im definitely not going to throw away a new chance out of fear.

I think people seem to be just plain afraid of FUN or GENUINENESS these days!!

Sad.

Just saying hi to everybody!!!!!!!

As per the OP, tbh, I think fake boobs are for TV and Movies, in real life its just not what most guys want at all. Its the whole "Perfect Woman" BS that has grown out of the Hollywood & Porn Industry.

Personally, I could understand a completely flat chested woman wanting to go for some decent sized fakes, but the whole D cup + scenario is a waste of time + money and only good for wowing the one night stand partner who's full of liquor anyway. There may be a few hubbies out there with "Perfect tit fetish", but they are few and far between and usually not the best catches in the first place if thats their priority.

There's just nothing like a good old fashioned honest rack.

What we do want, a lot of us, is basic: Politeness, sweetness, caring, intelligence, some class, loyalty, a modest amount of physical fitness... All in all, a somewhat well rounded human being. And beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but each eye has its own wants so there is no point in going into short/tall, brunette/blonde....stuff here.

Oh and we want you to stop purposely dating and staying with the ******** who treat you like **** and give the rest of us a chance. Any idea when that idea will catch on?


Cheers.