Dear catinidaho a simple and nice reply this is what I would generally write to start the ball rolling. "Hi xxxx I have just read your profile and would like to message you if that's alright. I'm an honest and trustworthy kind of person and believe that I'm one of a kind man. I would be only to pleased to chat further with you if you so wish. Kind Regards Peter." What is your views on that? I have not been here for a while and would like to say thanks to all those that have added a reply.

Thank you for your reply it's hard to see where you are going but I sense you are a little negative with whats going on and your results. I'm no doctor but smile don't dwell on the negative side of your results and remember it's a numbers game. Keep analyzing everything you are doing.

I thought I would start this topic because I feel there are a lot of us out there that could do with a nudge on how to text to woman AND men correctly. First off i'm not perfect by far trust me and my biggest fault would have to be that i'm not the worlds greatest speller wrrite (see).....lol.

So to set the ball rolling I believe the three golden rules are:
1 Be yourself.
2 Be honest.
3 Be truthful.

This is just something to chat about in no way would I criticize anyone but am always open for suggestions. So please feel free to comment thank you.