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Its a risk we take,,,keep pushing on... 
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Guys do this to, so I feel part of it's just the mentality of certain users enjoying the closeness and intimacy you can build with someone online, or even the phone but don't ever want to commit to meeting in real life because it destroys the illusion. For what ever reason, it doesn't appear that she was right for you, don't give up hope as several success stories on here prove it is possible! And now I will just drool over the thought of your British Accent 
Interesting point. I admit that I wish I hadn't met a few of the losers I met off the internet, they were soooo much nicer online. So maybe she's had the same experience? Would have been nice for her to just be honest though. She knows that I am no looser I have built a business here from nothing in less than 10 years, I am not flush but doing OK in this economy have good friends published musician as well as currently writing a book Now if that is a looser in her book let her go and find herself a winner
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Guys do this to, so I feel part of it's just the mentality of certain users enjoying the closeness and intimacy you can build with someone online, or even the phone but don't ever want to commit to meeting in real life because it destroys the illusion. For what ever reason, it doesn't appear that she was right for you, don't give up hope as several success stories on here prove it is possible! And now I will just drool over the thought of your British Accent
This is only issue in the USA not in Europe SAD But yea the droolers are always 2000 miles away
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I am a very confident person in general After a few disappointments on site dating I have decided to proactively look for a partner I spoke to this lady a few weeks and then when I thought she was comfortable I asked if she wanted to meet me. She said I was scary. Yet someone I wasn't even pursuing told me not to pursue her just to stay friends and I wasn't even thinking of pursuing her. Now I know I am eccentric Englishman, I know I fool around and joke around a lot to the point that may get on some people's nerves. I know I can be a pain with my bubblegum philosophy. But am I scary? Why is it that they talk very nice for months on end and the moment the word Starbucks or dinner comes into conversation they run away. Can someone explain what is it? Good luck on here Robert
Try ASKING her why!!!! Why is it that men find it so hard to ask questions???????  
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Well you may look like popeye and i maybe olive but your not Brutus thank god lol i would dust myself down sweetie and put it down to experiance....her loss. Anna x |
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I think they're afraid of your big pipe. Maybe that too.... 
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Huh? THATS what ive been doing wronggg! I actually SHOW UP for the dates!
But scary ? I couldn't scare a t-i-t-t-y baby if I tried
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If I were you and had been chatting for weeks and she said that I think I would have to ask her what she meant. Apparently not too scary to be chatting with. On-line getting to know someone is difficult at best unless your personalities really mesh. Keep trying Robert. You will find her. Some enjoy chatting with a scary man. They would not meet him, because he's scary, but he's just enough scary to chat with. It's like nobody would sign up to get their guts carved out by things that rise from the grave, but the same people would certainly go to the movies to watch the gore. Same thing. Robert, at least they chat with you. I haven't got a single reply to my enquiries, and the ones who write to me only write to insult me. I enjoy it in a way, because if I did not enjoy this, then there would be nothing to enjoy at all in my life. My nature is friendly. When I first came on this site I remember there were 6 or seven of them they ganged up on me and I am not ashamed to say I was almost in tears because I had done nothing to these women.They know who they are . So I say be yourself. and I hear ya why write and insult |
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Edited by
robert1652
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Sun 09/27/09 04:49 PM
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I am a very confident person in general After a few disappointments on site dating I have decided to proactively look for a partner I spoke to this lady a few weeks and then when I thought she was comfortable I asked if she wanted to meet me. She said I was scary. Yet someone I wasn't even pursuing told me not to pursue her just to stay friends and I wasn't even thinking of pursuing her. Now I know I am eccentric Englishman, I know I fool around and joke around a lot to the point that may get on some people's nerves. I know I can be a pain with my bubblegum philosophy. But am I scary? Why is it that they talk very nice for months on end and the moment the word Starbucks or dinner comes into conversation they run away. Can someone explain what is it?
There are many reasons why... and for that person to understand, pursue or go further with the so called relationship. Be it deep friendship, dating etc... etc. In this person's case: Maybe something changes came up like family issues, losing their job/s and worried about what will happen next, plus dealing with emotional turmoil right now that they decided, now/today = is not the right time or it's a wrong timing to get involve with any relationship be it deep friendship, and to start a serious relationship/dating for anything or something that will complicate their life... Personally, I know I have a lot of things going with my life right now and I do not feel like mixing it with something that I think it will complicate his life and my life in general....I do not think it is fair for that person. I am not going to lie about it. I want to be honest and I expect honesty from the other party. So I guess, for some people here to say, move on or Next is your other option may work for you. Good luck! I must be extremely unlucky that any one I have encountered in the past 2 years (almost) have been jinxed by my approach that is scary I tell you
PROBLEM SOLVED |
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Nope, can not explain that, I have no idea what they are thinking..your not scary. Your hardly scary... Don't worry about it Bob, your a sweetheart! 
what makes people think that I guess distance makes people feel safe Your trying to figure out the mentality of these women...of women.. Good luck with that. 
Thanks Lady love you to bits
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Edited by
robert1652
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Sun 09/27/09 04:40 PM
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If I were you and had been chatting for weeks and she said that I think I would have to ask her what she meant. Apparently not too scary to be chatting with. On-line getting to know someone is difficult at best unless your personalities really mesh. Keep trying Robert. You will find her. F@#king hell what next
Ok, so I had to do it. I perved ya. You only have a few real pics on your profile but you're smiling and they appear recent. Didn't see any of you making faces, except popeye which is funny. And your profile is lovely. I'm with Giggles on this one............NEXT! The pictures may not all be me but they are all real products real places and real buildings. I have had to do it this way as I don't want to be immediately recognizable by business associates who know me for my serious side. I have no fear but I try to avoid silly remarks at work as I am the boss. |
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She may just not be ready right now... But you're not scary..... 
I am 
ARE NOT!!! ...hehehehe
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Ya got me swinging. I'd have a coffee with ya. If you bought,,,,,,and sat at another table.
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If I were you and had been chatting for weeks and she said that I think I would have to ask her what she meant. Apparently not too scary to be chatting with. On-line getting to know someone is difficult at best unless your personalities really mesh. Keep trying Robert. You will find her. F@#king hell what next
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She may just not be ready right now... But you're not scary.....
I am
Holly smoke!!!!! you are too
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Well for what its worth- I don't think you are scary- maybe she was just not comfortable actually meeting anyone at this time- Some women feel more comfortable talking on the phone or chatting online but aren't confident enough to take that next step. Don't take it personally- we women are sometimes confusing yet completely wonderful creatures 
I think it just boils down to being confident in yourself and evidently they were not The most important piece of advice I can give you can be summed up in one word my friend..........NEXT!!!!!
I also have no problem with that but why not say Bob I don't feel comfortable at this time No is an answer too isn't it? They have no problem talking about what they like and what they don't like so what is the problem with a straight No? |
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Nope, can not explain that, I have no idea what they are thinking..your not scary. Your hardly scary... Don't worry about it Bob, your a sweetheart!
what makes people think that I guess distance makes people feel safe |
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Ya got me swinging. I'd have a coffee with ya. If you bought,,,,,,and sat at another table.
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Edited by
robert1652
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Sun 09/27/09 04:09 PM
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I am a very confident person in general
After a few disappointments on site dating I have decided to proactively look for a partner I spoke to this lady a few weeks and then when I thought she was comfortable I asked if she wanted to meet me. She said I was scary. Yet someone I wasn't even pursuing told me not to pursue her just to stay friends and I wasn't even thinking of pursuing her. Now I know I am eccentric Englishman, I know I fool around and joke around a lot to the point that may get on some people's nerves. I know I can be a pain with my bubblegum philosophy. But am I scary? Why is it that they talk very nice for months on end and the moment the word Starbucks or dinner comes into conversation they run away. Can someone explain what is it?
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Elementary kids squash them and set up a lemonade stand
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