OK..OK..after putting a little thought into this now..I'll even attempt to elaborate on why.

Its possible for both, but typically much easier for a woman to fall in love without having to "see" the man, because to really reach a woman, is through her mind, then her heart.

Most men are jack-asses. They don;t understand how a woman "works" in this area of "love and romance". Most have no clue that something like "foreplay" can be a process that can start as soon as you wake up and not have the actual encounter until late that night...and you don;t even have to both be in the same place.

Guys on the other hand, we are "sight" based, so we "see" what we like and go after that. But some men are enough in touch with there own selves, that its still possible they could have an actual "heart to heart" encounter and realize it as such.

Does this help???

Absolutely! Not only possible, but happens all the time.

Hmmm..an interesting question...even though i know my answer already. But decided to put some thought into it anyway.

On the down side, you got disease, emotional issues, etc etc..

On the plus side, you have a woman who can know real well how to please a man in probably every aspect, and proabably would be a probable "anything goes" in the bedroom (or any other place you might want for that matter).

But all in all, my first answer was instant as soon as I had seen the question...

An absolute no.

LOL..as my old friend use to say (he was retired Tulsa PD..may Gary RIP)..

"Its ONLY illegigal IF you get CAUGHT!"

ROFLMAO Wonder!

Now thats smart!

Was just reading the forums..and seeing all these people saying "I didn;t get anything for Valentine's Day..etc etc.

Ummm have I been solo so long they changed Valentine's day to OTHER THAN FEBRUARY 14th!!????

For the US people...ummm that's TOMORROW!!!

So guess what..you ALL still have HOPE!

So please, stop freaking us old folk out..we have enough trouble remembering sh*t as is!!!

ROFLMAO..WTF!!?? Ask Madam! I'm part of the CAST! Who do you think is the MIDGET!!??????

Ummm its not Valentines Day here in the states yet..gotta wait til tomorrow.

LOL..poor shoes.

you mean you didn;t see how much more mature he was than other's his age?? I mean really, I think he prolly is at least out of diapers!

Yeh, same reason I won't go after young women (under 30...ok 27....nah 24...ok as long as she is over 18!!! ) Just kidding..30 is about my low range. But same things..long term goals just get way out of whack.

But I'm sure it happens a lot more to the women...and some of the women LIKE that..they call then COUGARS! Guys are just called PERVERTS!

If it smells like fish....I'm outta there!!!!

LOL..yeh right! Like you never pulled a man's LOVE HANDLES when he was down there handlin the love business!??

I don't care what ANYONE says!! EVERYONE, both men and women have LOVE HANDLES!!! I see people all the time saying "I don;t have LOVE HANDLES!!

I'm like, YES YOU DO!!! We ALL have LOVE HANDLES!!! And this one chick gets in my face!! Saying how she don't have LOVE HANDLES!!

So I told her.."I will bet you $20 you have LOVE HANDLES and I can PROVE it!"

She slaps down a $20 bill, I grab her by her EARS and then pick up my money and walk away!!!

Ummm the one I remember was called...I THINK (not sure) Fall Down????

Why not?? Yes the US has tons to see...but I have seen most of it..at least all the "scenery" parts.

I have been to Europe, but want to take time just to go "castle touring". I have seen so many cool castle pictures..and for some reason I am facinated with them and have been since childhood...maybe I was a Knight in a past life??

But I am not going to stop here..there is a whole world to see and explore! And I'm going to do it while I am still young! I can always come back to the states and piddle here in my old age!

Well first thing..NEVER get your hopes so high they become "unrealistic".

You should have known when talking on the phone with this person some of thier traits. And for this guy to do the things you just described, I could not imagine him being able to "hide" many of those traits,even over the phone.

So best advise i can give...keep things in proper perspective and keep your hopes within reason. then relax and take things slow and see what happens.

We ALL "strike out" on dates at times. But you have to keep swingin to even have the chance to hit the homerun!

Yep, the desert is not a good place after May. Last summer I went down and stayed in my RV in Baja on the Pacific, about 250 miles south of the border, just south of San Quintin ( LOL NO, its NOT the prison..and down there its pronounced San KINTEEN) They have some beautiful surf there and its quiet.

This May, I'll head towards Montana. I have a friend here, she is from Montana and her tribe is there near Glacier national on the eastward side. And I have not been to North Dakota (will have to just drive there in the car and cross the boarder just to say I was there..nothing to see there) and spend a month or so in Montana and then Idaho, then take the coastal route back down to southern Cal later in early fall.

Then I only have Alaska to hit and I am done with my tour of the USA and North America. Good thing we have a BIG world to explore!

yeh you're right.

Will be nice when they get a cell phone cam that can do low light stuff..would be a great shot right now..just a glimmer of light over the mountain left right now.

Oh, summer .. YUCK! I have to leave this place them. Its wonderful in the winter..but summer...even the devil can;t take the heat here..many times 120+ and you better not have leather seats!!!

ROFL..with me, it seems quite often these days!!!