LOL...this is what I get for:

1. Stumbling into a conversation.
2. Doing so post-all nighter to get work done the night before. (Cue that I should take my butt to bed??? LOL)

So sorry that I misread this! =) But, I am in agreement with you; you shouldn't have to choose them or him. Not fair...I dated a gal back in the day that had 7 cats. I AM allergic and/or very susceptible to bad sinus responses from animals, but no way in hell was I going to tell her that she had to nuke them if I were to move in. One, that's not my place; two, I was kinda scared of her, but that's another story. LOL!

Now that I grasp the situation a little better, I think it's a give and take; if he's wanting to get all of these animals, etc., down the line or whenever, you shouldn't have to give up something that's already in place, to start, as well as the fact that they'll be there even AFTER you move to a new joint.

I hope that you two can get this sorted out; best of luck to you on that, sweetie! =)

Darrell

...so, hi. =)

I get the attachment to a furry creature, etc. -- those guys are the ones that will always be there for you, when the humans that you would think would be leave, one way or the other.

That said, let's add something new to the mix: everything is well between the two of you re: the relationship. He/she is affected, allergy-wise, by animal hair and/or dander. Now what? Do you break simply because of a sinus onslaught? =)

Just thought I'd throw that in for other opinions, and so on...talk amongst yourselves. =)

Darrell

I have a legit code for XP that you could try.

Get at me: dfulwilder at mac dot com (saving the email from the bots, one post at a time! LOL)

...wow, man.

I've heard about this so much from friends that I know from that area/state, but to actually see it is another thing!

Great post, my friend!