hi,
actually woman are not scary with child, actually women s are very strong,but they are very possessive and emotionally attached with child.they never thought about them selves.a single woman can face every situation in life.she can handled any relationship with any men.but with child they are became emotionally weak.
every men looking for women weak point for getting emotional attachment.and this is very true that every woman have a weak point is her own child.
from men side they are also possessive about child.but not so much as a mother.so you also get men who are not interested in you,who is interested in child.