as salaamu alaikum

I agree somewhat...but you do come across honest people once in a while, like xxman84 so I think its worth a try especially If we are muslim and fear Allah all men are not like that some truly want to settle down and have concern for their hereafter; so make duaa, you cant get what you dont ask for, obey Allah and seek forgiveness, and be patient. I wish you well too, May Allah give us someone he is pleased with in this life and the next. Ameen Allahumma sali ala Muhammah was sabihi wa sallam :)

As salaamu alaikum. Im just a normal salafi sister. Im a simple person. I like to be happy, and I love family. I have a health condition acquried before islam, and it is difficult if anyone shares this illness finding a spouse because there is really no set way to go about it. On top of that brother and sisters are not being honest about their health. Honesty, and intergrity are highly important to me, so for me its a must. I would not be interested in a brother who had herpes if i didnt have it because we are supposed to guard our health and i would be upset if he told me after the fact, or not at all. That would be traumatizing, so here I am just seeing if there are persons such as I whom are seeking a spouse. I didnt see anything about herpes on here so I guess for those standing in the dark this is a place to be honest and seek a spouse as well, a starting point. Its anonymous, so why wouldnt you? It is haraam to not tell someone.