Have you actually met yet, talked on the phone, video called or are you still chatting online?

If he isn't willing to meet or talk to you via webcam or phone you then you have to ask yourself if he really wants a relationship or not. That might sound a bit harsh but there are people out there that will string an online contact along until they get what they are looking for.

Be careful of anybody that asks you for money or credit on a phone, and especially if they have have pushed the online relationship part along really fast. The vast number of these people are doing something called "Catfishing" and will make you think they care about you just to get a financial or physical payout.

Watch out for such things as telling you they have suddenly found them selves in financial hardship and they make you feel guilty for not helping them.

Most of these are from an area outside your geograhical location, or that they have travelled to one and now need your help or that they can't afford to come meet you as they don't have enough money

If they seem too good to be true then they probably are.