This is not the olden times where women were not considered equal. That man better do just as much for you as you do for him otherwise that is considered very very chauvinistic! Occasionally it is nice to pamper your man so to say but remember about you too. Don't make yourself miserable but remember not to cross the line. There really should not be a section called how to get a man and keep one. This sounds like a woman has to be an actress altogether. This is why relationships don't last because people don't know what each other is like from the start. I encourage people to be themselves from the start you should never have to worry about how to keep a man. If they truly like you from the start you won't have to worry about how to keep him he will always like you for you and won't want to walk away. Just don't become a huge complainer that will drive anyone away.

I guess I am about to reiterate what the rest of the women have said so far. I am only giving you my two cents because I recently found myself in a similar situation. Lets look at it this way it takes two to tango. If you don't have two obviously it doesn't work. Same here if you were to marry one of them is the one who doesn't love you going to stick around no. If you marry the one that does love you but you don't love her either one you will be miserable the rest of your life because you gave in without exploring the rest of the fish in the sea or two you will leave the relationship altogether. I know times are hard now with chivalry dying and society bringing about more problems every day but I encourage you to wait until you find someone that mutually loves you as you love them. Good luck!