you an only be as honest as the person receiving can take
but
with that being said
dont change , head up , keep searching

after all marriage is like jail
may ya pick your room mate well
could be time well spent or <shrug>

best advice i could give you is
k my x wife used to ask me all the time , knowing it would piss her off cause i am honest to a default
Dat ?
yes ?
Does this dress make my butt look big ?
<face palm>
my normal answer , No , you butt makes the dress look big

better way to say it
the dress compliments the curves of your back side

still both very honest and truthful answers
but very different outcomes when said
<shrug>
best wishes on your hunt