It was mentioned that the only way to find out if somebody was real is the video chat and for having a face-to-face meeting. I totally agree I have been trying now for 7 plus years. Still adapt in my life but unfortunately I'll let you plan a traffic cameras users and snakes pretending to be human. And I mentioned let's have a video chat most of them will run through the hills or they'll come up with an excuse there the phone not able to use the camera at that time for whatever reason or they need to get a minute to be able to broadcast it never ends the same and the doing and think BS just keeps getting deeper and deeper so good luck sooner or later I'm going to find mine but I can't tell you how frustrating it has been to this point