If I liked them enough to go on that third date, that would show I am
interested enough to continue the relationship or make sure they are
comfortable with me enough to continue. You should know by the first or
second date if there is an attraction or not.. It really depends if you
are serious about relationships and honest about yourself to continue
unless you are just into playing games, I'm not, being a gentleman, I
would determine where the relationship is heading, forward, backwards,
nowhere. You have an obligation as to what you want and what you are
willing to compromise to commit to a relationship that may turn out to
be permanant. You only get out what you put into it, it should be 100%
all the way.