In my time I have dated more than a few Black women. Being honest every one of them are very good-looking and sexy as hell. But again being honest, every one of them are racist. I admit to them that I find black skin tone very appealing and sexy as hell, I do not lie about it I admit it. I also admit lips are a personal thing for me and kissing them is much more pleasing than thin line lips.
on most occasions, I do not make it past that, I am told I am a racist, sexist ***. I mean no disrespect or harm, so I leave and carry my rejected *** off. This much I know, I am truly not a racist and I am fairly honest. no saint but I give respect.

In my time I have dated more than a few Black women. Being honest every one of them are very good-looking and sexy as hell. But again being honest, every one of them are racist. I admit to them that I find black skin tone very appealing and sexy as hell, I do not lie about it I admit it. I also admit lips are a personal thing for me and kissing them is much more pleasing than thin line lips.
on most occasions, I do not make it past that, I am told I am a racist, sexist ***. I mean no disrespect or harm, so I leave and carry my rejected *** off. This much I know, I am truly not a racist and I am fairly honest. no saint but I give respect.

Remember, daughter gone. That is not going to mean your clear now...lol I know, but that too is a good thing.

There is nothing wrong with that at all. I too am a past swinger, fun but for me it made sex less important. Maybe it was age too, lol. Today love looking at the past and smiling about it. good luck

I think it depends on what one would call real love. A lot of people think total control is real love, and for some, It could be. Others like myself think this is the person I always want to be involved with. Then some think sex is what keep you in love.