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Pure marriage bed
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I don't believe any of this is in the bible, but rather just passed down censorious puritanical beliefs that have been held onto by some churches (religions) out there that want to control their followers out of guilt or fear that they won't be worthy to attain everlasting life in heaven. Just sayin'
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Topic:
Pure marriage bed
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Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral. Hebrews 13:4 What does the passage mean to you? Are Christians in marriage meant to have 'vanilla' intimacy? How pure is pure? If it is exclusive between the husband and wife, no third parties or such ... does a 'pure' bed refer to the exclusivity of the relations or how 'vanilla' those relations should be? thoughts? I could go into all the philosophies inspired about sex in religion. I don't think that is what you're asking due to the term "vanilla". From what I understand about that religion is that husband and wife are expected to mate using what is commonly called "The Missionary Style" Facing each other lying prone with the woman beneath the man. "Doggie Style" is not permissible because it alludes to animalistic attitudes. Likewise, any position/style that does not sanctify the act is considered sin. What is also implied is that a man should never spill his seed unless in the act of procreation. Therefore, just having sex because it feels good is also a sin. It is also implied that the bed is the holy place of procreation so sex in the kitchen, porch or living room is also considered a sin. From what I conclude from my understanding of the religion in which I followed, there is no such thing as holy sex. Any sex for pleasure is a sin. Even with husband and wife. Copulation is for one purpose only, to sire a child. Be fruitful and multiply and all that jazz. |
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Topic:
Pure marriage bed
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The actual phraseology in the passage is dependant on which translation you use. I believe the intent or the spirit of the text is saying that if you are married before God and you are in the spirit then the two flesh (husband and wife) shall become one. The marriage bed shall not be defiled meaning a husband and wife who have become one can do anything sexually with each other and it is blessed (not deviant) because they are joined not only physically but also spiritually. My interpretation.
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Topic:
WHERE R THE REAL MEN
Edited by
The Windwalker
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Sun 12/16/18 11:28 AM
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But that's just me.
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Topic:
WHERE R THE REAL MEN
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I don't know about most real men, but I'm afraid of women. I find it difficult to read minds and alot of times I need a translator. I mean I can hold my own in conversationalist girl, but by no means am I fluent.
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