i agree, and i have looked into surgeries as well. But in the end i have become secure with who i am , is it really to much to ask for a woman who feels the same? wether she is big or small? i am sorry if any one felt i was trying to be insensitive, the truth is i lack tact.

shananigans... if i aspelled that right, first off, let me introduce my self, i am ron, brennen is my wonderful son. Secondly, thank you for your input. Thirdly, im not really worried about feeling "pushed off," i more or less bit off more than i could chew. I wanted to see how many women would responde, and what they would say. Try to catch a few of my responses to the others.

then please dont feel that i am ridiculing or targeting heavy set women, my mother has a saying, those in glass houses should not throw stones. I am most definately not one to cast a stone. I do not for a moment believe the size of a woman makes the beauty of a woman.

before you try to attack me, finish reading my profile, it explains why

lol, ive heard that one plenty of times lmao, ty

i have dated heavier set women, but if you read my profile, then youll also have read why i dont like to , its all about insecurities. if the woman is totally secure with her self, then i can find my self attracted, and no, not at all did i think you were rude. You answered my question , and thank you.

and now that i figured it out, i have one question, and this is for the ladies. Why is it that most women are so superficial , that they will not date a heavy set male?

this is added on later, it seems that those of you who have not liked my question have sat there and targeted me as the superficial one, and point out quickly that i prefer not to date heavy set women. well if your going to judge me like that, then express the whole statement that was said, which is:

"ALthough i am a big guy though, i prefer not to date larger women, mostly because of the insecurities they have, but also because there is little attraction there"

note the insecurities. i know a big women can be just as beautiful as a smaller women, and i have dated a few heavy set women who were a hell of alot more beautiful than any of the smaller women i have dated. ty

gives me some faith in humanity

most def the woman who can hang witgh the guys!!!

i think the real question is, is there really a such thing as a chubby chaser, and why havent i met one yet??? ..... and yes i know, thats a two parter lol