The people running this site (Mingle2) also run a Christian dating site, might be worth for you to sign up and look around?

And there is, of course, Google to look up some other sites just for your tastes...

Maybe somebody else reported them to be a scammer?

It might be a blessing in disguise... ;)

https://mingle2.com/topic/574728

go to
Account -> Profile -> Edit My Photos -> Choose File -> Upload Photo
or
Account -> Profile -> More Photos of (Name) - Edit -> Upload Photo

Account -> Profile - Edit My Profile -> General -> Your Location

that feature has been replaced with 'Who's Online'

Still playing AD&D... old school!

* Tarja Turunen
* Doro Pesch
* Amy Lee
* Aja Kim
* Patti Russo

I'd stay within my usual routine and locations and look within them.

For example, everybody goes to the supermarket and you can learn a lot about a person by just looking at what they are buying...

yeah, maybe a bit too creepy to stand in the isles and just look at women shopping... ;)

but I hope you get the drift

you change them here
https://mingle2.com/search

You can change them here
https://mingle2.com/search

Hornburg, near Goslar in Niedersachsen...

I like the song 'Deutschland' and the video that goes with it - very powerful...

as a general rule - no.

If I like somebody I will give them a contact email address to use some of the features (VoIP) there to make life easier. Only when I fully trust that person to be sincere will I give my number out (one specifically for that purpose).

Yawning emptiness - basically just a picture and nothing else. Tells me they don't care about anything and that they are not serious about the whole thing...

And my biggest peeve: When people leave the site without deactivating their profile!

I think in order to get over something you have to through it...

Do you use the internet, have a mobile phone, a modern car? Do you have a library, loyalty, or a credit card? Obviously you do, we all have one of these things. So you cannot be too concerned about your privacy. Just walking down the street is recorded, analysed, categorised and shared. You seem to just focus on the tabloid media about the big "scandals" whilst totally missing what is really going on in today's world. There is a complete profile about you on a dozen servers somewhere around your country if you like it or deny it.

As for WhatsApp - it is still a safe system to use since it's messages, chats and video calls are encrypted with an industrial strength code. It is also a good application (such as some others) to verify that you are actually talking to a real person and not a pretender or predator of some kind...

* Show that you've not only listened but cared enough to think about something that she might like and made a note to tell her
* Kissing her hand. And hugging her throughout the day for no other reason
* Cooking for her
* Show that you worry about her
* Know how to order/make a coffee for her the way she likes it
* Look her in the eyes when talking to her
* Be well groomed
* Help her in her coat/jacket - old school chivalry
* Fit into her social network by talking to her friends at gatherings
* Ignore your phone when you are with her unless you are a firefighter, medic, or doctor on emergency duty
* Ask her questions about her past and her favourite things
* open the doors for her
* Compliment the way she looks in her outfit
* Ask for advice, get her perspective on a limited set of options
* Tell her she gives off a “happy” vibe, it will make her feel good.
* Act like an adult
* Think things through and have a plan
* Have an Opinion about things
* Be Transparent, say what you want from her
* Be as supportive and proud of her career as you are of yours
* Ask How Her Day Was. Pay attention to her response. Listen to it and ask if you can help before you start telling her what to do.
* Ask her to Dance, even if it's just in your apartment
* Stay Quiet and Calm when you want to yell and scream
* Treat her the way you would want a man to treat your daughter.
* Call When You Say You Will Call, be where you say you will be, do what you say you will do.
* Know when, and how, to apologize
* When She Get’s Emotional, don’t do any of the following: Mention anything having to do with any time of month, refer to her as a “nag” (or worse), try and “fix” it, tell her she “should not” feel that way or respond with any statement that shows that you have it worse than she does. Just listen and be there for her
* Be Respectful, even when mad
* If you love her, fight for her, not with her
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Are you sure you want to use Mingle2, a public, free and open dating site to advertise your intend of infidelity? Ever thought that a friend, neighbour, or colleague of your wife stumbles upon this and reports it back?

I don't approve on moral grounds (I'm not religious, btw) of such behaviour, so I cannot find anything good about your profile with that in mind. I only hope that you don't have any children...

As the old saying goes, age is but a number.

What is important is the connection you have with each other.

There are however some things to consider:
How wide is the age gap? If it is more than say ten years than you have to think ahead. Are you willing to take care of her and love her when she get's really old? Also, older women who had a career, like to have kids as long as they are still productive - how do you feel about that?

There is never a good or bad answer to that question based on what little information you have given though...

From the sounds of it not at all. You never really forgiven her and tried to make it work. Have you talked to her about how you feel in regards to sex? Have you tried really everything? Instead, you sneak behind her back, go on a dating site, and find someone else. Especially bad because kids are involved.

I think you show a great deal of cowardice and insecurity of facing life on your own. Getting out of a long term relationship and then straight into another (with the added bonus of a kid) is never a good idea and seldom works out.

Separate from your wife, since you clearly have no interest in the marriage anymore, spend some time living on your own, and figure out what you want in your life. Divorce is painful, no matter the reason, and costly. Besides, women are clever and they feel when something is amiss. If she can prove that you were looking at other women whilst still being married and she gets a good divorce lawyer, you are the one that will stand to lose a great deal.

You tell me how that makes you feel? Is it really worth it?

And if you are just after the sex - is Mingle2 really the right site? There are specialist sites out there just for that purpose, and more discreet. Chances that someone who knows you and your wife finds you on here are greater than you might realise...

In my personal opinion, you have your priorities all wrong and think with the wrong brain...