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Mon 05/13/19 04:39 PM
Edited by Ami on Mon 05/13/19 05:25 PM
I am about 2 - 3 months on this site. The thing that make me suspicious of the messenger is when they start with sweet talk (Hello angel, sweety, gorgeous, etc.). Then there is the endless empty profiles, people want to have intimate encounters, etc. Also the words .... "Tell me more about yourself." It seems that people really don't read a profile, but look at pictures only. Some also need spectacles or glasses, because they can't really SEE the pictures. And yes, some of my pictures were taken in the UK, although I live in South Africa. I travel each year during July/Aug to the UK, as I have family there. It does not make my pictures fake ... it is part of who I am. For people with genuine profiles, it seems to be impossible to find a legit friend here. Right?

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Wed 01/02/19 01:13 PM


I am new here and already had my share of scammers. Initially I left out my previous job, just to see what is going on here. I Had a few "interested" in my profile, but I ran them out as scammers. As soon as I mentioned a defect in their profile versus what they tell you, they loose interest! Why? .... Because most guys here either lie or just want a woman for a quick intimate encounter and that is that. My former job was a police officer. That (I don't know why) scare most men. (I included that in my profile now). Is it that bad? Does it make me a bad person? Is it wrong then to be honest in my profile? NO it isn't. There are some good people out there. I prefer a filled out profile, because I want to know a little about a person that caught my eye.


Hi Ami, welcome to the forums.
I read your profile and it is very good. Nice to know that you were a police officer. It might scare some but those people who are scared of police officers are up to no good anyway lol

Happy New Year!
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Thank you and Happy New Year to you too smile2

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Wed 01/02/19 01:11 PM


I am new here and already had my share of scammers. Initially I left out my previous job, just to see what is going on here. I Had a few "interested" in my profile, but I ran them out as scammers. As soon as I mentioned a defect in their profile versus what they tell you, they loose interest! Why? .... Because most guys here either lie or just want a woman for a quick intimate encounter and that is that. My former job was a police officer. That (I don't know why) scare most men. (I included that in my profile now). Is it that bad? Does it make me a bad person? Is it wrong then to be honest in my profile? NO it isn't. There are some good people out there. I prefer a filled out profile, because I want to know a little about a person that caught my eye.


Hi Ami... it's good to fill out your profile and to be honest. Your former job will only scare the ones that don't matter. Also, keep in mind scammers don't read profiles, so fill it out to attract the ones you'd like to meet.

Hope that helps and welcome to Mingle... the forums are a great place to meet genuine people and we have lots of fun here, so stick around and have fun. waving


Thank you smile2

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Wed 01/02/19 12:43 PM
I am new here and already had my share of scammers. Initially I left out my previous job, just to see what is going on here. I Had a few "interested" in my profile, but I ran them out as scammers. As soon as I mentioned a defect in their profile versus what they tell you, they loose interest! Why? .... Because most guys here either lie or just want a woman for a quick intimate encounter and that is that. My former job was a police officer. That (I don't know why) scare most men. (I included that in my profile now). Is it that bad? Does it make me a bad person? Is it wrong then to be honest in my profile? NO it isn't. There are some good people out there. I prefer a filled out profile, because I want to know a little about a person that caught my eye.