Maybe I wasn't clear enough. I have had a woman get mad and I know she was embarrassed. I have also had a couple of women avoid me because I had asked them out. I haven't ask very many women out, maybe 3 or 4 in the last 3 years.

It's not about plaques, degree's, admiration, or material things. Its about relationships. If you notice alot of people have read this post but you are the only one to respond to it, so far. Which tells me your a prety open minded person... So my question asks you to think about a relationship...

Ok ladies answer honestly!!!! How embarassed would you be if I were to ask you out? I've learned this can be humiliating. So how would I know if it's ok to ask?? I don't want to embarrass any one again..(I'm gun shy)..

Yes, I work, drive and enjoy what most people do. But some times I forget what I am or what I'm not. my disability is from an accident..

That attitude might be part of the issue