i think a 7

Thanks AngeBrulant! It was innocent and he was the one emailing me knowing that he's friends with my ex... Maybe he really isn't his friend.

And My ex has done far worse to me then I have to him, lol this was just a simple HELLO.

By talking to my ex-Bf's friend on the phone.

His friend has been emailing me, and wanted to talk on phone. So today we've talked, and I admit it was an "OK" conversation, but he didn't seem too bright.

Now i'm kind of regretting talking with him today.

I just hope this doesn't get back to my ex, I'd really hate for him to call me to start a fight, but it's probably too late for that now.

Hello and Welcome, I'm sure you'll meet alot of new and interesting ppl on this site...

Hello And Welcome! I'm still fairly new to this site to, I'm sure you'll meet new interesting ppl on here. HAVE FUN!!!

Lonley I've been in your situation not too long ago, and trust me it does get easier as time goes by, I've been single for 2 yrs now, and it's good to have friends and family there to talk with. They've helped me and stood by me thru. thick and thin.

They will realize they gave up a 10 for a 6... My ex realizes that now, look who's calling me now....hahaha and all i can tell me was "THANK YOU"

he's made me the strong person i am today

YOu got that right!!!!

LMAO not only can i relate to "stay" but "Before He Cheats." LOL ....

Yeah it's one of the best songs i heard of there's. LOL That song just reminds me of myself. Something I'd be singing about right now.

Welcome... I think you'll find JSH interesting, I'm fairly new to this too

I WONDER IF THEM PPL ON THE COMMERICALS ARE REALLY COUPLES ARE ACTORS

mzmarlycia i have a child with him too, and no it aint easy i'm glad we can relate to each other

About a century or two ago, the Pope decided that all
the Indians had to leave from a certain area.
Naturally there was a big uproar from the Indian
community. So the Pope made a deal. He would have a
debate with a member of the Indian community. If the
Indian won, the Indians could stay. If the Pope won,
the Indians would leave. The Indians realized that
they had no choice. So they picked a wise, yet humble
man named Howling Wolf to represent them. Howling Wolf
asked for one addition to the debate. To make it more
interesting, neither side would be allowed to talk.
The Pope agreed.

The day of the great debate came. Howling Wolf and the
Pope sat opposite each other for a full minute before
the Pope raised his hand and showed three fingers.
Howling Wolf looked back at him and raised one finger.


The Pope waved his fingers in a circle around his
head. Howling Wolf pointed to the ground where he sat.

The Pope pulled out a wafer and a glass of wine.
Howling Wolf pulled out an apple.

The Pope stood up and said, "I give up. This man is
too good. The Indians can stay."

An hour later, the cardinals were all around the Pope
asking him what had happened. The Pope said, "First I
held up three fingers to represent the trinity. He
responded by holding up one finger to remind me that
there was still one God common to all religions. Then
I waved my finger around me to show him that God was
all around us. He responded by pointing to the ground
and showing that God was also right here with us. I
pulled out the wine and wafer to show that God
absolves us from our sins. He pulled out an apple to
remind me of original sin. He had an answer for
everything. What could I do?

Meanwhile, the Indian community had crowded around
Howling Wolf. "What happened?" they asked. "Well,"
said Howling Wolf. "First he said to me that the
Indians had three days to get out of here. I told him
that not one of us was leaving. Then he told me that
this whole community would be cleared of Indians. I
let him know that we were staying right here."

"Yes, yes, and then???" asked the crowd.

"I don't know," said Howling Wolf. "He took out his
lunch, and I took out mine!"

thank you all on your input.... it's much appreciated, i'm glad to see i'm not the only one being victimized by their Ex.

and we really should change the forum name to "screwed up ex's club, lol you agree

da absolute thanks for giving me some input.

he is a liar and i learned never to trust or believe a word that comes from his mouth. i think he's realizing he doesn't have that power and control over me so he's doing and saying what he can to make himself satisifed, trying to make me angery

Oh well

well i just needed to blow some steam off in here... and freshmountainair, i've been called everything in the book, why do they call you down when u want nothing to do with them. they're just hating...

I've done toe whole legal thing with protection orders etc. seems like law enofrcement here dont enforce them. i've even called his work place and talked to the human resource lady, thats who they referred me too.

and he keeps telling me we have to talk because of our daughter, but what's the point he isn't active in her life, you get me!

I was in a long relationship that lasted 6 yrs.

My ex lied to me repeatly about his now current partner, telling me she was his cousin, friend, etc....

Well i've been single for 2 yrs. And it's been rough for me to get over all the pain and anger i had towards him.

But he's not making it easy for me, he calls constantly to pick fights, then does a 180 and says he misses me, etc. coming by my office to see me, asking me personal questions. which really isn't his business...

i am so tired of dealing with this man, i've gone to the extent in order for him to leave me alone, and none of it sinks into his head.

my mom tells me to get married and he'll leave me alone, i'm starting to think that's probably the only way.

anyone have any suggestions on this problem i'm having. Or can relate to it, so i dont feel like the only one here

HELLO HERE'S A WARM WELCOME FROM A NEWBIE TOO. I THINK WE MIGHT MEET SOME INTERESTING NEW FRIENDS, ENJOY THE SITE, I AM SO FAR!

Thanks for welcoming me blonderockmom.

you have a good day!