Why do people constantly stress on finding love? Remember how it was in high school? You simply dated someone, you "thought" you were in love, and yet you learned that you really weren't. Then you got out in the real world, met someone and it just organically happened. You can't just be like....

"Hey Mingle. I want love....like right now!" And then poof....you get it like you put $3.00 into that food service vending machine with sandwiches...you choose what you want, make a selection, and you get it. However, sometimes you don't like the sandwich......ugh....now I want a sandwich. Where is my secretary with my sandwich? Jane!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It would be easier to meet someone in person, but you have to leave your house.

Yeah. Good one dear, Buh, am just ready and with good intent too. So??

My friend told me that for me to 'find love, I must be ready to love'. And this is true. To enjoy a real and lasting love and relationship, you will have to add these spices and sparks yourself:

1.Be you: You need to be sincere to yourself. That's what people out there wants to see. Your profile image should be you, not a make believe. You won't want to tell that person to see your real picture later after some months of engagement. Profile picture is least but your story starts from there. Your friends want to see that oval shining blond smiling face of yours.

2. Be Authentic : Don't try to accommodate every interest,nope. You are not running for the presidency, you just need a certain class or set people or person. For instance if you need single parent/divorcee,25-40 age limit, 40-65 age limit,etc. Be proud to state them. This is where your choice as a person comes to play. Let your friends know the type of person you are and what spending time or moment with you feels like. You may want to do away with every day choices of active, travelling and others. You may like to state a more personal hobbies or exercise you did like to play with your friend /parner.

Others later......

if Love was easy we would all be in love , and there would be no wars, conflicts, fluffy rainbows and coloured bubbles.

You have been here for 10 days. Did you really expect to find the right woman.. forge a relationship and fall in love.. all in 10 days?

if you want to find love,FIRST,you have to learn how to love YOURSELF!!

everything falls into place after that!