Hi I have a different delimma my husband and I have been married for 5 years but have been in a relationship for almost. 12 years. This year after his 31 st birthday he decided that he needed space to develop his love with another woman I am a very religious person so I talked with my pastor who thought it was a joke he has known us both most of our lives and never expected this from my husband but that is another. story long story short now my husband says he is torn but does not want to leave his family. I have spoken with this woman several times and it seems as if she does not have any morals (let's face facts and then think about it) although she was raised with the same beliefs as we were. I have been apologized to so many times I am tired of the phrase "I'm sorry". What should I do please help?!!?!?!