word of truth

Flashes old women when they're coming home from bingo

You called?

Thank you for your insight; you seem to understand where she's coming from very well... However I am quite at peace with having no quest to try to understand women. Life is too short

But I can surmise you've got some experiences where guys weren't the best communicators. Thanks for sharing.
I think it is partly because guys and gals tend to view communication as to different things, and that often leads to misunderstanding... for example, some guys prefer not to talk, but will rather show what they feel, whereas for most women (in my experience) putting words to feelings are very important. And instead of accepting each others differences of nature, they each become frustrated that the other doesn't conform to their way of doing things.

And this is also why I no longer try to understand. I find that acceptance is the way to go.
To explain, it's like saying, I want to understand that storm. Phuck that shyte (in my humble opinion) I need to take measurements in dealing with that storm, but I cannot until I accept that storm as it is, regardless of my understanding the effect of butterfly wings causing it half a century ago.

lol yeah, true that people change a lot over time. One of the reasons I told this story is because it is extreme. However, I think you're wrong about high school life have no relevance to what you call adult life - in my experience there's something to be gained everywhere, from observing small children solving conflicts to reflecting about the turmoil of teenage life. But one's got to be open

I agree that guys can be just as fickle as women!!! I was merely starting out with one experience, hoping to get the ball rolling. I'm inviting you to elaborate on your point of view.

Ah, Liz, of course

Indigo, so sorry, but there's only room for one y'know

So this is a thread about any experiences that you might have that you want to share for us all to learn from.

I'll lead with: Girls can be strange, so take it cool.

In high school I was in class with a girl, and from the word go she was hating on me. For 3yrs it didn't matter what I said or did, she was there trying to get me down.
About 10 months after graduation she came down into the shop I had opened, chatted like nothing ever happened and ended up asking what I was doing that day. Uhm, I replied, I'm going home, catch a shower and probably watch a movie. Ah, but could she come. Uhhhhm, sure, I replied, not feeling sure at all.
As we arrived she said she would actually like to have a shower too, and while she was taking it I scratched my head wondering wtf. Well, being sort of a gent I prepared a light snack and pulled out a movie and then, when she came out, I went to take a shower of my own.
When I came out she was lying naked in my bed...
Let's just say the rest is history and add that I was no less puzzled when she left later that evening.

This wasn't the first or the last of a series of experiences that have caused me to give up trying understanding the female. She is wonderful, complex, beautiful, completely crazy, utterly tantalizing and follows some obscure law that is way beyond me.

With a woman anything can happen, so be cool, open and never hold a grudge.

Any comments are welcome, and of course, do share anything that comes to mind.

My experience is, that the more clear you are about what you want and how, the better. And furthermore that you tell her straight up as soon as possible. I've gone on first dates saying that I'm not looking for serious - and still got a second date; I've told girlfriends before we began talking seriously about moving in together, that I have my own stuff, and I do my own stuff, and that isn't going to change.

So in essence, I think anything flies, except saying nothing, doing nothng... in that case she's just going to imagine whatever and push you there... if you're not clear about your own limits and goals, you're screwed, but otherwise just make up the rules you want to play with, and see what she says...

Prides herself on being healthy! She always swallows.

Prays to Santa every year for one special gift - to be able to deep throat everything coming her way

Laughing Millions Nude Gone Jay


J H N E S

Do I look like I'm a good judge of character?

Rides a pedal bike without the seat

Is so horny the mail man doesn't even knock once.

Please Leave Stop Eating Dinner


F S K E H

Popped her cherry with a banana... she couldn't find the cucumber.

Heinrich Himmler

Do you deserve it?

Pee standing up when drunk