Guys like girls are not complicated at all once you study them and learn from observation. I love going to a bar with a friend when I was younger and she was single we went in and danced and had a blast. I would see a guy giving her the eye so went to the bathroom and came back 10 - 15 mins later and from afar was watching the whole scene unfold.

As soon as I left and was out of sight, they would make the move to her. she would never dance, just talk to them as soon as she got a drink I would come back and sit down and the guy would be like um uh I uh, I was like go ahead finish the conversation.... They would so leave.

If she really liked the guy I would introduce myself and say she likes you we are just friends go ahead and dance.....


Now if she saw a woman giving me the eye she do the same, leave and watch from afar.

The nonverbal signals we give off are so obvious to the trained eye. You must know it is not only hand signals, it involves the entire body, posture facial expressions, etc..

Like I said in a different post:

http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/92030


Thats sums it all up in a nutshell, but it indeed is more complex then that.....

My thoughts would be that THEY got what they WANTED!!!

Or they felt they didn't really like you after meeting you, and didn't have the balls to tell you that!

And the 2nd here would be a WIDE case of both men and women...

I will always tell them MY REASONING even if THEY see it as an insult or me looking in a bad way in their mind.

Don't go to that ugly place, dear. Bitter never attracted anything good...twisted you should save for your honeymoon. hehehe

Hey disenchantedangel,

It happens to ALL of us, not just angels and Jill's either!!! Quick shout out to Jill. You can't take it personally, or let it make you feel bad. Eye on the prize, sweetheart...and concentrate your thoughts on the those that think you're the prize too.

Only thing I can think of saying to all that is ??? he's a PLAYER ... I would hope that a true gentleman, would either HAVE the difficult chat with you, OR at least call and say thanks BUT its me not you ... sorry JMO

It could be a couple of things-

- they could either not be into you and they don't want to hurt your feelings (as was stated earlier)

- they could have trouble expressing themselves. This could be because they're afraid of showing their inner emotions, or they've put up walls from previous bad relationships, etc. (this is something I have a bit of a problem with)

- they could also just be scared to death of calling you back, as they fear you might rip their heart out and stomp on it. There's a lot of fear and trepidation involved with dating, you know.

If you're into the fella that much, and you have his phone number, try breaking with tradition and give HIM a call. If nothing else, you'll find out why he hasn't called you.

some guy are just out for one thing.



not all of us guys are like that if they do not call you back then they are not worth the time or day for you to talk to

ok well here is what the deal is... hell really I dont know I would have contacted ya it would be a month or so before i would start ignoring ya have ot wait until after I had ya locked down then not give you as much time while i find another woman to play... currently I have 3 and in a couple weeks will start working on my 4th

stop dating those kinds of guys and all is solved

you must not have put out.......the vibe....he was looking for...but he did not want to hurt your feelings...to your face

ie. he is a Coward

Thanks for clearing that up for me