what im worried about is maybe she don't really like me and that is her way of just putting me off. I have tried to get her to go out again and explained that was how i was raised, to pay for the date, or if you invite friends out to pay for them. The one thing i know is she is living on her own and she probably dont have the cash, so i like to treat her out. I have told her she dont owe me anything and that i dont want anything in return other than her company. I must say i will give this another try and see where it goes. I have made up my mind and i will wait till she calls and want to hang out.

She also has stated that she has bad experience with other guys, and all i have to respond to that is that im not them. I think there is more to it, so i will try and see whats up...???

hello all,

I starting seeing a girl recently. I sometimes don't get her, but i do like her. I have asked her and she said she liked me too. We have been going out, I have taken her to dinner, and out to places. My biggest thing is that she feels like i shouldn't have to pay for anything. She don't want me to buy her dinner or pay for any date. She thinks its wrong for a guy to buy dinner or pay for a date.
should i continue or should i give up?