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Thu 03/29/18 02:25 PM
PIsces can have Dailey hugs (((()HUG))))). The feet rubbing crosses a line though.


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Thu 03/29/18 02:13 PM


bailey you are too far away from stu.
if you look at the top of the message block on his profile it says what filters he has set.

p quick get comfy stu will be right there for the promised massage and huglaugh


He definitely would be if it were possible! I can wait tongue2
I don’t mean to be rude and not offer, but I don’t actually want to rub another ladies feet. noway rofl

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Thu 03/29/18 02:10 PM

bailey you are too far away from stu.
if you look at the top of the message block on his profile it says what filters he has set.

p quick get comfy stu will be right there for the promised massage and huglaugh

Much appreciative Eric, though I don’t see it. I’m on mobile app. We don’t have all the bells and whistles of the full site. laugh

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Thu 03/29/18 02:08 PM


Stu, I tried to send you a message, but am “eligible”. Am I too old? Is that it?

That’s it isn’t it? tears sad tears sad


Mail filter, no.. it's not age.. heck, I'm 54..


You don’t imagine there are 54year old men who prefer women under 45? rofl

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Thu 03/29/18 02:04 PM
Isn’t that something?

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Thu 03/29/18 01:37 PM
Edited by BaileyIsHere on Thu 03/29/18 01:42 PM
Stu, I tried to send you a message, but am “ineligible”. Am I too old? Is that it?

That’s it isn’t it? tears sad tears sad


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Thu 03/29/18 01:21 PM




So far it’s been a lovely day Pisces. happy

I would gripe a little about an event at work, but being incognito prevents it. Sigh! laugh

Hello Stu! waving


HI Bailey waving

Nice name.. flowerforyou

Wait...who told you my name? surprised laugh

Ironically, you all are among the very few who actually know it. rofl


Umm... no one, I just figured it was Bailey...
It is Bailey. No one but my family and boss know it until I used it here. I don’t go by my first name offline. tongue2

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Thu 03/29/18 01:15 PM


So far it’s been a lovely day Pisces. happy

I would gripe a little about an event at work, but being incognito prevents it. Sigh! laugh

Hello Stu! waving


HI Bailey waving

Nice name.. flowerforyou

Wait...who told you my name? surprised laugh

Ironically, you all are among the very few who actually know it. rofl

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Thu 03/29/18 01:12 PM
I’m almost 50 and never been married. What do you think my opinion is?

I’ll give a hint. No one is making a romantic comedy of my situation today.


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Thu 03/29/18 12:56 PM
So far it’s been a lovely day Pisces. happy

I would gripe a little about an event at work, but being incognito prevents it. Sigh! laugh

Hello Stu! waving

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Thu 03/29/18 12:50 PM

perceive “be yourself” as allowing every impulse carte blanche

Good point.

Using self-control and tact is also "being" yourself, if you possess those qualities.

Its when those qualities are not inherent to the personality, that the phrase "Be Yourself" gets out of hand.

It gets seen as a reason to be rude, insensitive to others or just plain mean because that person is ruled by those negative traits. People's baselines are just as diverse as their individualism.

Many times, people don't really understand themselves so when their baseline personality shows, it gets messy.
Its the "I'm not crazy, You are" syndrome.
When someone is 'aware' of their baseline and the effect it has on others, they may try to change their baseline it better fit in.
That is also "being yourself" but in a decisive change.

As for funerals, I don't go. I won't even go to my own.
I choose to honor and remember the person in life.
That person is not at the funeral, not in the grave but alive in my heart and I take that with me where ever I go.
Yet, despite my own belief, I also understand that people need that closure and comfort. I am not insensitive to that. "Being myself" allows me to feel compassion for what others are going thru because I allow myself to feel compassion for others emotional expression.

When I tell people that my dad and mom are dead, they always say "I'm Sorry". My first thought is why? You didn't kill them and you never knew them? But my compassion for others makes me say "Thank You". I am "being myself" because I know they truly think they need to comfort me.

The “out of hand” be yourselfers have very loose filters I’d venture...some none at all. laugh

I agree with you in theory about funerals Tom, but at the same time can’t seem to let a family member or friend put someone in the ground forever without my support. I also don’t care to think of going in the ground without all I care for with me one last time. Even though I know I won’t know one way or another. It’s a nice thought for me. flowerforyou

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Thu 03/29/18 12:40 PM

Breakfast was great, lunch was fine, work was exhausting. Around 250 guests for breakfast and I was by myself. Had a break for lunch though, only 100.

I get to leave in 7 minutes. bigsmile

You need to kick your feet up lady! flowerforyou

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Thu 03/29/18 12:39 PM




I can hear it... :notes:

East bound and down, loaded up and truckin',
We're gonna do what they say can't be done.
We've got a long way to go and a short time to get there.
I'm east bound, just watch ol' "Bandit" run!

rofl

I know what kind of radio you have. laugh



Right. spock

Theme song of Smokey and the Bandit. bigsmile

What is a front door called the White Knight?

front door is cb slang and white knight is a cb handle/name.
check out the song-white knight

I learn somfin everyday. flowerforyou

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Thu 03/29/18 12:36 PM
Mellow Yellow

(anyone know what that is?) laugh

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Thu 03/29/18 12:34 PM
For all seasons

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Thu 03/29/18 12:33 PM
Ski weekend :ski:

waving Good evening and afternoon gentlemen!

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Thu 03/29/18 12:30 PM
Cantaloupe :melon:

Funny looking cauliflower Mikey! laugh

Toody waving

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Thu 03/29/18 07:32 AM
It’s been lovely chatting, but I MUST pay the rent...



laugh Later gentlemen! waving

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Thu 03/29/18 07:27 AM
Edited by BaileyIsHere on Thu 03/29/18 07:28 AM


I can hear it... :notes:

East bound and down, loaded up and truckin',
We're gonna do what they say can't be done.
We've got a long way to go and a short time to get there.
I'm east bound, just watch ol' "Bandit" run!

rofl

I know what kind of radio you have. laugh



Right. spock

Theme song of Smokey and the Bandit. bigsmile

What is a front door called the White Knight?

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Thu 03/29/18 07:16 AM

from dc north you never get out of the city. but the water doesn't get really cold til you get above cape cod


I get goosebumps in Virginia water! rofl

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