Thank you to AngelHappiness for a great reply! I will take your advice and make myself less available. I appreciate you!

it was just a girlfriend he had for a year and a half

I friended my brothers friend on Facebook but we don't know each other. The convo got started by him asking if anyone has a room to rent. He lives out of hotel rooms for work and is based in MI now. He just needs a place at home to store some stuff and crash when he comes home two weekends a month. I have a room and he was interested so we decided to meet.

A few weeks passed and he wasn't able to come home yet. I told him I was bummed so he asked me to come to MI. I said we need to know each other better. We talked on the phone and started texting. I made it clear i was into him and he did the same. He would text me that he wished i could come cuddle with him. He finally admitted he was putting off meeting because he wasn't fully over his ex girlfriend of a year and a half but that he needed to move on and was ready to get out of his slump.

I went to TN to see a friend and decided to go to MI to see him. It was bad planning on my part and got there way later than i wanted. When i arrived we were both tired b/c he works nights so we talked awhile and took a nap together. Then we watched a movie and he went to work. He was able to be talk his boss into being "on call" so he came back to spend time with me. We talked and watched a few movies and cuddled a little. He is still going through some stuff from his ex but they broke up about 6 months ago. He is a libra, very quiet and artsy. He doesn't want to rush anything and wants to get to know each other. We talked about him coming to see me in a few weeks. Nothing else happened, we didnt even kiss. I said i felt foolish for going up there for just 12 hours. He said we established a connection so it was a good thing. He told me about the last girl he tried to date, he said they talked for 2 weeks and nothing even sexual happened but that she stopped talking to him. But that was months ago. He doesn't have friends in MI and spends a lot of time alone. He said he was hanging out with a girl from work but she wanted more than friends and he reassured me he wasn't into her. He said i was the first person he has hung out with in about a month.

He told me that he is a libra and what that sign is like, specifically that in a relationship he has a hard time expressing feeling but he cares a lot. I don't think he's moving his stuff in with me, we are trying to see what will happen.

Do i just need to be patient? I am just into him and he's hard to read. I don't want to scare him away. I'm 31 and he's 35 but he makes me feel like i'm in high school. Help!