Hi, just my opinion :-) First, I think you should get rid of "not in the mood too jump in the sack right away" Guys don't want to acknowledge or be told "no sex" from the get go. I know this is hard because if you take that phrase out then you will be getting a lot of jerks messaging you, but hey thats a dating site, just screen and delete. :-) "I have respect for myself and the man that I meet WILL respect that" Men don't like to be told what to do, nobody does really considering they don't even know you yet, instead you could say "I believe that both people in a relationship deserve the same consideration and respect" Instead of "I am open to try new things as long as I don't degrade myself lol" try " I love to have fun, and I am open to new activities" degrade and lol in the same sentence I think sends a mixed message. Don't say "I have been told" just jump right in and tell em "I have a great sense of humor and love to have fun" Anyhow its just my opinion ... Good luck ! :-)