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Tue 03/19/13 11:28 AM
I am not a good communicator. I am great at the social niceties and do well when things go general (weather, books, politics, etc.). I am very poor at communicating personal interests, commitments, desires, etc. On the flip side, I'm a really good listener. I would love to improve my communications skills, but it took me forever just to get the hang of the "social chat". I am just prone to quiet, I don't like discord, and if I don't agree with someone I drop the subject before things can get heated.

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Tue 03/19/13 11:20 AM
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Mon 03/18/13 06:05 PM
best

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Mon 03/18/13 06:04 PM
Beautiful days - makes me tingly all over lol

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Mon 03/18/13 06:02 PM
Bets

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Mon 03/18/13 06:01 PM
Indebted

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Mon 03/18/13 05:48 PM
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Sat 03/02/13 03:07 PM
Being yourself with someone and accepting them for being theirselves

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Sat 03/02/13 03:05 PM
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Sat 03/02/13 03:04 PM
Is teen spirit a euphemism for hormonal psychosis?

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Sat 03/02/13 02:57 PM
Thinking life is WONDERFUL
(this is my mantra for when I start getting down :smile: )

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Sat 03/02/13 02:52 PM
Wear a T-shirt that says "I'm rich and looking for love"
Worst that will happen is you'll talk to some new people.

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Sat 01/19/13 05:42 AM

the thing is

the question is not if 'good sex' is overrated
or 'sex with the right person' is overrated

its whether sex, in general, is overrated

its kind of like asking if alcohol is overrated
because many people tend to have much more peace, sounder mind, and less stress when they dont drink

likewise, many people have much more peace, freedom, sounder mind, and less stress when they dont engage in sex with others

which can bring on all types of unwanted long term consequences that dont end up being 'worth' the short term physical gratification....


Very good point. The importance of anything is based on the people involved.

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Sat 01/19/13 05:40 AM
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Sat 01/19/13 05:36 AM
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Tue 01/15/13 05:33 AM
I like it. Did you design?

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Tue 01/15/13 05:31 AM
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Tue 01/15/13 05:29 AM


Ego's and self image can be easily bruised. Liking someone and then being rejected is never easy for anyone.


So, you're saying that by the time you've decided to have sex you've already invested a lot of emotions and by waiting you'll learn if he's invested emotionally too?

If this is right, how does waiting for sex lessen the pain?

Or are you saying that the act of having sex causes an emotional attachment in you?


I don't get sexually involved with people I don't like. Personal choice I guess. I'm not saying 'love'. But if you share your body, you hope it's someone you can later share coffee with. And for the record I (and I think many women) don't have a predetermined timeline. But as far as meeting someone in a bar and going home with them . . . nope. As to an actual date, there are some people that you have an immediate connection to and some you don't. And some just make you wonder if they're playing a game.

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Mon 01/14/13 10:01 AM
528 - Hi Cutie! Have to leave - keep up the good work!

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Mon 01/14/13 09:58 AM
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