I met him in line at a grocery store believe it or not dumped my change out all over his stuff by accident - it was like one of those "moments" didn't think I'd ever see him again but I was picking up my dry cleaning - waiting in line and he walked up to my truck and introduced himself asked me out for coffee that was about 1 1/2 weeks ago - we hung out for the 4th no indication that he was such an ass watched the fireworks yada yada yada then this. Can he really be that threatened? I'm a nice person! I wouldn't flirt or hook up with another guy when I'm on a date. I was so just flabbergasted. *sigh* all I can say is...."NEXT" and I looked up #7 at the local chinese take out restaurant and it's the cumofsumyunguy platter he might like that!!!

he'd probably like it....wierdo that he is

oooh what's #7?

I went out on a date last night. Believe me I was surprised also. So dinner was wonderful with all the wonderful shyness and smooth talk - we went to this place where you can walk around and listen to bands - watched the sunset - it was all wonderful. UNTIL he took me to a "pub" he was familiar with to shoot some pool and started drinking IMMEDIATELY. After about an hour of his "schmoozing" I got sick of it and went to talk to the drummer of the band. AS a fellow drummer we had alot to talk about music wise and he asked me to sit in. So I get up there and sang an old No Doubt song that suits my low range and it was pretty good. AFTER that there were a few guys coming up to me and telling me it was cool and they enjoyed it. He was having none of it. I wasn't encouraging these guys - they were just being nice and talking to me. I wasn't flirting, I wasn't touching, no goo goo eyes - nada. He immediately clamped his arm around my shoulder and the next guy who came up, before he could even speak my date was like "yeah she was good - we know move along" OMG I was mortified. He was drunk, slobbery and being a total ass. I literally had to elbow him in the gut to get away....so this morning he calls me to take me to breakfast and I'm not much of a breakfast person so I told him no and now he's insisting I met someone "else" and what did he do wrong? I was raised with 5 older brothers who taught me to be strong, independent and all that crap and I am, but I also can appreciate a good relationship. I have never been in an abusive or alcoholic or BAD relationship (there's only been 2) and I'm not sure what to do - any advice? any? Tell him to go to hell? How can I explain what an ass he was? And when he makes up the obligatory "I was wasted" excuse - that's a whole NOTHER can of worms. I don't know what to do.

My 4 favorite guys - Johnny Jack Jim and Jose....all in that order by Jose I'm so "used" up I start all over again

Shadowdog - I'm beyond cool....but I'm intelligent, laid back and a good guy to know...?

my idea of a perfect date involves drive-through's, sandy guitars, the smell of the ocean and sitting with that person writing songs or composing funny things and just laughing, enjoying the moments that come and then going home and having AWESOME 4 hour sex marathon LOL j/k about that last part

Yes I have a deep crush on a perfect guy - and will be traveling to meet up with him soon...I met him on here so wish me luck!

I wanted to be a mom to 6 kids like my mom was. THEN I wanted to be a marine biologist and loved to catch frogs and bugs with my brothers THEN I wanted to have a lemonade company that sold only to kids THEN I wanted to be a chemist so I ended up being a biochemistry/molecular biology major and now I work for the *gasp* good ole US of A government

Awwww

I treat others as they treat me. Disrespect I don't tolerate. I don't give people the chance to become my enemy.

That's a great story I'm Italian so I can sympathize with the hairyness. Are you a writer?

let's not get this twisted. Attractive people get hurt feelings too I, personally, don't think I'm all that but I know I'm not nausea inducing or anything....I have my issues with myself but automatically because I may workout or take care of my physical appearance I'm stuck up and someone who deems themself "ugly" thinks they don't have a chance and already starts out with an attitude of sorts. That's not fair to me. I don't judge people on their looks yet most of the guys on my friends page are hotties - I'm not sure why that is. I talk to everyone and I love to meet new people. So why is it ugly/pretty, fat/skinny, white/black can't we all just get along? Give peace a chance. (lol)

Unless that's how you prefer it hehheh j/k

I have 5 brothers so when I was young I couldn't remember their names
so I would call Dominic Tony and Tony - Joey and Joey -Mario and get
them all confused LOL

typical sunday I guess. I have 16 nieces n nephews so I reserve Sunday
for my family My brother just left for Iraq so his wife and kids are
bunking at my house - This is a rare escape as I'm locked in my office
LOL She has little little ones though and then 2 that are a good age
so we're doing ok It's only temporary. Anyone else have fun plans
today?

sorry for the double vision

Just a typical Sunday in Cat's lair - just woke up getting ready for
church - have a little league game to go to (my nephews) then the ever
popular Sunday dinner at the parents. I wonder how many guys my mother
is going to tell me about today? and I hope she makes her cannolis lol

Just a typical Sunday in Cat's lair - just woke up getting ready for
church - have a little league game to go to (my nephews) then the ever
popular Sunday dinner at the parents. I wonder how many guys my mother
is going to tell me about today? and I hope she makes her cannolis lol

How is everyone this fine Sunday morning? I'd like some coffee please
- just a touch of creamer and a hint of cinnamon...