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Wow! and but there is deliverance from addictions and bonds to chemical dependencies of smoking, fooling even a wisest individual to suspecting the need in the dependency is a want...

hey survival of the fittest: I'll be the termite taking your anthill now, and that is then my self declaring what is right., no matter how many disagree, without a Giver acknowledged of what is morally good.

only if one wants to entertain wanton distress after trying to marry without commitment in engagement...then seex it out before intimate documented marriage.

simply put if the validity to not being a sin, sex is just the mental-figment of a man ignoring all of creation showing commitment documented and considered by even the majority voting in a PBS 430AM ET poll 2 weeks ago: Marriage IS important, documented by the license= 66% voted in that morning and non-conservatives..!- and best in closure before sex.

(amartars=SIN...greek : opposite of leaving a mark for God as in testimony (martars...=witness/leaving-a-mark (for God))...)

Sin is not complicated figments of Man's ideas, but merely missing God. Since there is only one creator united , but One, then as the Creator of commitment is in demonstration, having completely designed to hold the universe together, and we are all universal, well? why not admit 45% of the divorces of 3 to 5 year live-ins, then marrying, never up-front committed anyway, do end in divorce, and like all divorces , over 70% entangled in sex-relations-affairs/ in and out of churches near equally: the non-self-control of affairs is near 3 out of every 4 divorces... to judge invalid to consider as sin is to make one self a new god of rights and wrongs; but without God, what are rights anyway? any more than made up conjectures of if God this or that... there is NO WRONG in made-up judgements of relative validity's vs any profoundly intimate commitment.

Grands 54 years, parents56, and widowed at 33... lessons from real intimacy which is sooo much more just beginning beyond climax and huffs and puffs and Oxyc-chems bonds between only what a man and a woman by the way united as one , in and out of sex, really ever know, and --- at 10 to 15 years of committed intimacy after documented marriage.