I used to believe in true love so much as a teen...as i grew my first love confirmed it but we separated since we both had our own future plans to travel to other countries.....

Over the years i either fall inlove & dont get same back or someone falls for me but i got -0 feelings for them....

It has left me to believe true love is only in the movies & in story books but in reality to see couples lived over 10yrs together means one is acting the fool to save the marriage or one is inlove & the other is coping...

Am i wrong?

I registered in mingles 6yrs back & deactivated my account after a month for getting too much messages from men above 60yrs...

I return 2yrs ago when a friend told me he found his life partner here then i left again after few weeks into my drunk-driven work life...

Now am back again today & some profiles i had seen all these years still exists here....

Question is ::::

1.if they have been active all these years are they godparents of mingles or they are really not active or this site really doesnt give serious dating?