Community > Posts By > DenialB

 
DenialB's photo
Wed 08/25/10 01:45 PM
Topic: Do you want to know WHY you're single?

Some of us are ok with being single and some of us are on a perpetual hunt for "the one". I think those of us who are ok with being single can continue on with our lives being ourselves, doing what we do and IF someone great comes along, we're ready.

If you spend your whole life searching for someone you will continually fool yourself into thinking you MAY have found them, inevitably ending in heartbreak. You beat yourself up over and over again trying to figure out what went wrong. Eventually you become so jaded that you stop being yourself and start trying to be what you think they want you to be to prove you aren't going mad. And when they still don't want you, you convince yourself they are the ones who made you mad in the first place.

Please people, be happy with who you are and someone, someday will come along to be happy with you.





This post should be a "MUST READ" for people when they sign up. I'm always amazed by how when people claim to have found "the one", they are usually miserable with out even seeing it themselves. To put this simply: You must love yourself, before you can expect another to love you.