Hi dude, Firstly to say I am unmarried. Even try to put my views here. It's just my opinion may be it works or may not be..

dude as u say she is fantastic wife.. that's means she has something positive who feels u like this.. whatever she has a beautiful fig. or smile or face.. whatever it is.. but she make u feel good.

Now about u.. u r pretty good husband.. that what everyone wanted.. No one want ROBOT or perfect one, it's will creating irritations.

so in my view U people as a couple are the best..

Now the things are stick on past 6 years.. haa.. Look every woman has a nature to collect all BAD and good memo.. specifically BAD.. which will comes again and again as in present or un nearby future...
U just except it and if u really did something wrong say to her.. I know it was My big mistake ever, but I m moving on.. but darling if u remind me again and again then how would I come out with that mistake.
I assure you will not repeat give me chance u know me since a long time.. then might be she will ready to give u chance..
even infact when she will again remind you in future make up ur mind, before she started again.. try to pretend before her reaction u still feel guilty, then only she believes you.

Now about friends and family..
look man.. it's all about ourselves..
like start with ur neighbors, no matter they are younger or elder.. start communicating with ur oldies friend.. try to get her gathered places ..
then definitely things will work out..


in last.. this is final or best easy way to break the relationship and get divorced.
If you are a LOOSER.. go ahead.. all the best!!

but if you are not.. Think out of the box.

Thanks
Regards
Ur wellwisher

For me.. it's my voice and eye to eye contact with that person also my handshake and positive vibe personality to make them comfortable.