He plays on your sympanthy, he get ladies that are lonely and have self-worth issues, because you can con a conartist, play on his pride.Because he thinks Full of himself and his ego gets in his way.Do not give him any personal information, and he asures you your safe, do not beleive him or her, and if he hasn't seen you yet and says he is going to make you his wife, run for your life, he's got other wives, but if he offers to give you something you haven't had in a while, make him prove it, if he can't than you know. so if you want to realy get to him get him to repeat what he told you yesterday if he repeats it it exacactly he is a damn good actor if he changes the story he's not a profesional.