Seems like everyone wants to vomit,do you all have the flu,or food poisening everyone knows that the majority of men and women want someone they are attracted to.I think the biggest mistake most make,and i have been guilty of this myself,is looking for a 10,when a cute 6,or 7,or maybe a 4 could really grow on you in time.i would much rather have someone who loves theirself,than is in love with theirself.lets just face the real facts,alot of people are looking for sex,drugs,or money,i'm not sure in which order. I pray everyone looks for the right reason,and just be yourself.good luck to everyone. ron c.