it would depend on the situation. honestly a lady who's expecting is beutiful and the love they show their tummy is the sweetest thing and it can show a guy what to expect if he were to marry that woman and have more children with.
for me what would turn me off is several kids with different dad's. 3 kids three dad's would be a bit off putting for me . because I am thinking of what it would be like for the family environment. would Christmas be a split apart thing? the years of being around the other father's and if they were tolerable or not. I know that there is no easy relationship but I don't want don't want to walk into a war zone. that all being said I say this.
ladies with kids or kid on the way. you have every right to look for happyness

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