i see a lot of impatience with some of you and then i look at the amount of posts that some of you have made and see very very low numbers....do me a favor and take a look at the numbers below mine or other peoples pics....
alot of people are still looking after many posts....HAVE PATIENCE....
and you would do better if you joined some of the threads and join in the sillieness and discussions for awhile before you started randomly emailing people...you see if you participate in these threads and (rember this part)honestly be youeself,you will make friends and people get a chance to see a snap shot of your personality(not just what you write in your profile because lets face it WORDS ARE CHEAP)
you give them a chance to know you and make educated decisions then.....so relax , post, and be patient...
your mingle2 friend

(((jeff))) ps...good luck