Im not going through the 'healing process', And i am an adult who is responsible, Im sick of people thinking its fun, deliberately hurting people and playing games with other peoples feelings, telling them what they want to hear, instead of actually being honest with them so they know their intentions, just to get what they want ie sex. People who find it difficult to trust after difficult times or experiences are always the ones who get hurt, and used, and when they are told the ridiculous lines that are used to brush someone off because they arent willing to sleep with them so soon or sleep with them without protection, they feel even worse about themselves making it 1. Harder for the person to trust again, and 2. Making it harder for the person who actually genuinely means what they say to the other person. I wasn't trying to publicly shame and hurt people but to warn other daters that they need to be careful. And by the way im not just talking about my experiences.

Having children was not the point i was making, I was making the point of HIV, Clymidia etc....

So im not a responsible adult?? And i NEVER said i was a victim! Ive spend 13 years in an abusive relationship and took me to realize i need to open myself up to find someone who is going to treat me with respect.

I or someone really should set up a website so people can name and shame the players and jerks who make dating harder for the people who are actually serious about finding someone, sick of being used, lied to and told exactly what i want to hear to get the only thing they are looking for, until they realize that some women/men actually have morals and wont sleep with someone without protection then being told the most ridiculous excuses going. Why cant people be honest nowadays, its not difficult, If your just after one thing why not just say so then you know exactly what to expect and where its going. Saves a hell of alot of time!! Anyone agree!?!