Did you ever get er to the ER? Try giving her some tylenol 2 tabs every 4 hours. A fever should never be ignored especially if there is a sore throat involved or swollen glands. These signs are usually indicative of an infection, actually fever is a sign of infection it's self. Your child is at the age where auto-immune diseases begin to emerge, I'd strongly suggest taking her to the doc. I have crohn's disease and my parents never did anything about it and I didnt' get diagnosed untill afew months ago. Please do ur kid a favor and get them in ASAP!