One person on the thread said cost of divorce is prohibitive. I can appreciate that viewpoint. In Massachusetts the courts are disproportionately set against men, and favor women by a far degree, awarding them crazy amounts of money. For the men out there unmarried, please demand a pre-nup. Any woman not willing to sign one is looking for a free ride, at your expense. I put up with my marriage for 20 years, hoping that things would change with the ex, hoping she'd treat me well. Despite how patient, kind, loving I was, she treated me like crap.

Two years out, and I am much happier. There are quite a few women out there who do treat others with kindness and respect, and will draw up from within us men, those things they also want, showering them equally with kindness, love, respect, gratitude, etc.

Men, if you're married and looking here, get a clue, get out of your marriage. b/c if you're here, odds are you're with a shat person. And you DO deserve FAR better. Perhaps one of those here.

100% my belief...



I'd add, super highly-educated, and if she tests similarly in the gifted to genius range, and attractive -- darn hot. Someone also who values relationship, has had to work hard to get where they are, so they appreciate everything more.

And the negative of the quote above would be, we don't want someone negative, entitlement-oriented, demanding, cutting, judgemental, lazy, co-dependent, needy, whiny, low-intelligence, just plain dumb when it comes to common sense, poor handlers of finances, liars, gossips, etc.