"Hi, I find you interesting and I would like to get to know you better".

^^^^ see this? what atmosphere could you put yourself in that would increase your chances of this happening?

what hobbies, interests do you have that others may also have?

do your homework...find something in your community and go do it



because if you continue to do what you have been doing
then do not expect different results


if you come up with a million and one excuses as to why you cannot do this
then I would argue that you are content in your current circumstances
and have no real goal to change