there is no problem with asking questions. when we aske questions we get clarification on a topic that we may not understand. When he told me, after being married for 2yrs, about who he was and that he didn't want to hide from me what he wanted. I was worried that he may find another person to take my place. I have always called him my saving grace. He took me out of a place where it was not emotionally good for me or even my children.

hi new to Mingle2 looking for some good friends and maybe something to bloom.

I was reading another post and thought i might clearify a few things. There are many different types of relationships, some monogamous and some not. My husband and I have been together for 5 yrs and he is the best thing that has ever happen to me. Over the years he has let me come out of my shell and let me be me and I with him. He is a natural flirt and that's him why try to change someone because of this world has to put a lable on it. we have been in 2 poly relationships and it has tought us that we are just wired different. My children (whom are all 16 and older) have been happy that i have found someone that lets me be me. I have always had an attraction to women but was always afraid to show it, Im not affraid anymore. My only thing is I tend to be a little shy, been out of the datting life ling time.

One thing about being poly is NO SECRETS. He tells me who he talks to and sometimes asked my opinion about them. He has even tried to help me find a girlfriend. Contrary to belief we do not share. He has his relationships and I have mine.

And for those who think its the same thing as swinging try reading on it. There are more people out there than you think

https://www.morethantwo.com/polyamory.html

Will be willing to talk to others like us and hear success stories or not so happy ones and need to vent