I am new to this, but have been reading through all the posts and would like to add my opinion.
I notice that women speak to emotional connections, while men are speaking to purely physical
Not to say that physical isn't a very important part of any good, lasting and rewarding relationship but.....
I think it might help men to understand that women think emotionally, the more they trust and feel that they matter as a person, the more they will want to enter into the physical part of a relationship with you.

Again...just my opinion