be glad this isnt like other sites..others keep your profiles active forever.
irregardless if youve been there recently or not.
they do this to claim higher member numbers than actually exist.

so,as far as deactivation goes,its better that at Least you Can deactivate it..get my drift?

the upgrade you mention.
if you have actually been posting in the forums,getting to know people,and been checking your email,you might come to realize this IS an Excellent site.

very good Moderators,good Members,the ability to send and Receive emails,along with nudges etc.
all free.


just my .02